Hey to anyone who reads this!
I finally got back home yesterday from two pretty good Christmases. I got to see family members I don't see very often and got some amazing gifts.
Of course, I had to be so smart as to accidentally leave my Bible at home (I forgot to put it in my suitcase), and so by the first night I was gone, I was going insane from my lack of Bible reading. I borrowed a Bible from my grandmother, but it was a King James Version, so it was really hard to concentrate on my reading when all the words ended with the ending -ith. Sigh. All well.
Okay so this is something that has really caught my attention lately: How girls (and some guys) dress. I was at the mall yesterday with a friend, and I couldn't believe some of the tops I saw a majority of the girls wearing. Extremely low cut, thin material with spaghetti straps. I also noticed that the guys that were with the girls seemed to be constantly staring at the mostly exposed girls' chests. I wondered what was running thought the guys' minds, seeing girls dressed this way. I could only guess, being a girl myself, but even the thought of it made me shiver. I also wondered what was going through the girls' heads; did they even know that they were causing the guys to stumble and think impurely of them? It saddens me to see so many girls that think that the only way they can be considered pretty or beautiful is if they show themselves off and and attract a lot of guys.
Proverbs 30:12
There is a generation that are pure in their own eyes, and yet is not washed from their filthiness.
Another thing that strikes myself with a feeling if guilt myself, is not only how girls are dressed, but what they are dressed in. Designer jeans, fancy coats, costly shirts and expensive jewelry...these are only a few things so many girls, including myself many times, "need" to have in order to fit in with that particular group of people, or be "in style" and "with" the rest of the world, or get attention or impress that certain boy. I think many times that sometimes I lose sight of what's really important. A person's heart is so much more important then what they look like on the outside. Sure, the world labels everyone with how pretty you are. But that's only peoples viewpoint. God's viewpoint is so much higher, so much better! In his eyes, every single on of us is beautiful. After all, he crafted us, made us who we truly are. I would much rather be seen as beautiful in the eyes of Jesus, who is, was, and always will be, rather than the world, which is slowly fading away.
1 Timothy 2:9-10
In like manner also, that women adorn themselves in modest apparel, with shamefacedness and sobriety; not with broided hair, or gold, or pearls, or costly array...
So it's you're choice naturally. How do you want to be viewed? As we're all human beings, it's natural we all want to look good. There's nothing wrong with looking nice, but how much time are we putting into our appearance, when we could be serving our Lord and Savior? And while looking pretty is okay, do you really want to be viewed by guys as easy, sexy, or a toy for their own pleasure? Even Christian guys stumble by seeing girls dress this way, no matter how amazing of a guy they are.
Matthew 5:28
But I say unto you, That whosoever looketh on a woman to lust after her hath committed adultery with her already in his heart.
Personally, I don't want to be seen as someone who is constantly trying to fit in with the world. I would much rather give thanks to the Lord for letting me be me. I want to been seen as a treasure; not a target.
Really, doesn't the world know modest is hottest?
- Emily
